Gain Self Confidence


In order to gain self confidence all you have to do is recondition the way you think.  I had to learn to recondition my mind to think positive again. We must make the effort to learn new positive habits that can transform our confidence.

Living life with an optimistic and positive attitude will help boost your confidence. Building up your self confidence is one of the most essential pieces of advice you’ll receive in your life!

Self confidence works as an armor against life.  Gaining self confidence will give you an easier time handling conflicts and resisting negative opportunities.Why Confidence Is So Important?

The more self confident you become, the most risks you will be willing to take. Self confidence is an essential part to living a happy life.  Lacking confidence will have a negative impact on your social relations, career, relationships, and even your mood.

There are heaps of techniques to help you build self confidence. Let’s look at different things you can do to boost your self-esteem. Techniques To Help 
Gain Self Confidence

Change The Way You Think Of Yourself

We are often taught to think we’re either smart or we’re not. By changing the way you think about yourself, it will help you start to see a positive change in the way you feel.  By simply changing your thinking you can live a happier life and not place limits on yourself.

Think Positive

Developing good self-esteem involves developing a positive attitude.  Having a positive attitude is crucial in order to gain self confidence.  Changing your thoughts to positive ones does take time and practice.  The purpose of positive thinking is been able to accept yourself and remove any internal barriers that hold you back.

  • Don’t over exaggerate things that happen
  • Stop negative thoughts
  • Highlight the positive
  • Accept your flaws
  • Don’t worry about things out of your control
  • Take control of your feelings
  • Choose the brighter side of things

Be Kind And Generous

Another great way to gain self confidence is been kind and generous. One should follow the golden rule, “Do unto others as you would have then do unto you.”

Are you kind and generous to others? I try to be kind to every person I meet.  Granted, not everyone will be kind in return but just continue to practice kindness.  By having a kind-hearted spirit it will help improve tremendously your self-image.
Do you stand tall or do you slouch? Did you know you could use body language to project confidence, credibility, and represent your personal brand?  Use the power of good posture to feel more confident.

Stand Tall

Studies have shown people who stand tall appear powerful and confident.  Stand up tall with your arm on your side and legs shoulder apart is a strong stand.

Be Grateful

The best way to build confidence is by consciously focusing on gratitude. Set aside some time to create a list of things you have accomplished and create a separate list of all the things you’re grateful for in your life.

Anytime your feeling down take the list out and the feelings of gratitude will help increase your well-being. The power of gratitude is incomparable by any other emotion.


I tell everyone the importance of incorporating exercise routine in your daily routine.  Exercise has improved my quality of life and given me some long-term health benefits.  Case studies have proven that lifting weights helps lower anxiety.

I have notice that running helps me improve my mental positivity.  Exercising not only does it helps with the self-image it has many benefits short-term and long-term.

Get To Know Yourself

Make the time to get to know yourself. I am a stronger believer that you can’t have true happiness if you don’t even know what you like, want, or need.  Building up your self-awareness also builds your self-confidence.

When you know yourself well, you know what you are about and you understand your strengths.  By understanding your strengths it helps build your confidence and it’s a tremendous value for your life.

Set Small Goals

Having self-awareness will help sharpen your skills, identify any weakness, and is the ultimate key to unleashing self-confidence.

Setting up small achievable goals is a great way to gain self confidence. By completing these small goals it helps raise your self-confidence. It’s important that we live  with a purpose.  Having attainable goals helps build confidence, makes you feel successful by completing something, and gives you focus.

If you wake up with no goals, spend numerous hours watching marathon shows on Netflix, and feel disappointed in life, it could be that your living life with out purpose.  Make sure to take time to reevaluate your life, set up goals, and start working on them.

Dress Nicely

Dressing nicely each day can take some effort but will ultimately help improve confidence. Dressing well, taking care of your hygiene and manifesting “high power poses” can help boost your confidence.  Choosing clothing you feel good about can really help your confidence.

I personally feel more confident when I put on my favorite dress. When I look great, I feel good, so I carry myself with a lot of confidence.

Stop Complaining

You have the power to recondition your thoughts.  When you catch yourself complaining, stop, and think about ways you can find a solution instead.  If the problem can’t be fix then why even complain. If you do face a situation where change needs to be made be more assertive at the way you convey your message.

Power Is Knowledge

The more knowledge you acquire, the more confident you will be. Power is knowledge, and the more you get, the higher your confidence will be.

For instance, if you want to be the best at your job, a great to boost gain confidence in the workplace is taking the initiative in learning new skills for your career. By learning new set of skills for the workplace, it will give you the upper hand and gain self confidence.

Gain Self Confidence

Developing confidence is one the most valuable things you will ever need, to accomplish anything you desire in your life. One of the things that held me back for many years in accomplishing things was my lack of confidence. I allowed fear to stop me from doing things that can move me forward to achieving different goals. I hope these tips will help you gain self confidence. Please share this page with anyone who might need to boost his or her confidence.

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